The Book Club

For a number of painful years, I felt so alone in my world of mothering addiction. 

Then miraculously, one by one, I crossed paths with old friends and acquaintances who also came out of the shadows to reveal their reality of having an addict child.  
Five of us (mothers) formed a small Al-Anon group, where we have been following the 12 Steps.  
We call ourselves The Book Club.  
Easier to say when you don’t want to get into details…  
We cry, we belly laugh, we spew expletives – VERY therapeutic – and then we get back to the 12 Steps.  
The focus remains on ourselves and how we can reframe our relationship 
with our child. 
Alot easier said than done.

To this day, it doesn’t take much for those old emotions to push back up to the surface and attempt to wear me down again. 

Now, I have a small group of angels who are but a phone call away…  🙂 

                                                                                              





Addiction Trip

When I travel, I’ll type my destination into a GPS to make sure I don’t get 
lost along the way.

Addiction has no road map or GPS.  
It’s an endless drag punctuated by slow climbs, out of control downhills 
and harrowing hairpin turns — an accident waiting to happen.

Parents drive this highway a car length or two behind their addicted child.
We seek directional advice from experts in a desperate attempt to help 
them avoid the crash and burn.

Ultimately, the addict is responsible for his or her own journey.



















 






The Enemy

                               Addiction is the enemy, not the person.

The Serenity Prayer
  God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change;
Courage to change the things I can;
And wisdom to know the difference.

 

The Enemy is Not Wise

Addiction is the enemy, not the person – And there’s no truth in the enemy within.

The Serenity Prayer
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.